Dad dating after divorce
The first night my boyfriend ever spent the night at my house while my kids were there was about two years into the relationship. There are many factors to take into account when it comes to dating after divorce with kids and sleepovers: In my opinion, the time after your divorce is a time in your life to be very unselfish in certain aspects and really focus on your kids.
And that means being very thoughtful in deciding if sleepovers are right.
I’m not saying let your kids rule your personal life, but let them feel like their feelings on the situation matter.Answer: It’s advisable to tell them you’re dating as you begin to do so.Teens don’t want to feel out of the loop, and letting them know you will begin dating will assist them to manage the changes in their emotional lives.I’m not against the sleepover, and I don’t expect people to do what I did, but I wish men and women would take a less selfish approach and think the sleepover through a bit more, before they let someone into their bed with their children two rooms down.Here are the advantages and disadvantages of sleepovers: Advantages: In closing, I think sleepovers are okay, if it’s the right person, the right timing, and if you handle it the right way.