Characteristics of intimidating girls
She’s geeky to her Joss-Whedon-loving core, a Whovian, Vertigo-reading, 3rd edition D&D (none of that 4th ed crap thank you very much) gamer with the con stories to prove it. While it’s true that many men will use it as a polite dodge to avoid saying “I’m not attracted to you”, when it comes up over and over again, it’s a sign that maybe there’s more to it.
And don’t get me wrong, this isn’t someone looking for geeky attention or a propped up fantasy. But “intimidating” is almost uselessly vague, especially if they keeps coming up; it covers a multitude of meanings to the point that it means everything and nothing at once.
When this comment comes up, it is said for a vast variety of reasons, but unfortunately many of the women who say it are so singularly focused on their perceived slights that they can not assess their beliefs from a broader sense.
If a woman keeps hearing from men that she’s “intimidating”, what is she supposed to do – besides start approaching men who have more self-confidence and fewer issues?
Corporate Climber persona, they’ve believed that men were intimidated of them mainly because of their drive, ambition and earning power.
Here’s what she’s missing: What many women interpret as men feeling threatened by her “masculine” desire for professional success is usually more about that man seeing a potential void for emotional security in a relationship.
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Many people have asked me to write a follow up piece to my personality profile of the Aries Male with a special report that looks specifically at the key traits and characteristics of the Aries woman.